First
First is always top position amoung all the ranks, be it getting first position on in your class for studies or getting first position in sport events,etc... Of course when you get the top position in whatever things you are going for, you will feel a sense of achievement, a sense of pride. Thus it is very meaningful to go for whatever things that we want in life and excel in them. Though winning is very important in life, it isn't everything. Also, winning once, doesn't mean you will win it forever. I remembered 4 years ago, my favourite soccer country Italy won their 4th world cup trophy by beating France after the penalty shoot-out. However 4 years later, they went from hero to zero...
Why did this thing happened? I believe they didn't put in extra efforts and wisdom to defend their no 1 tittle. As such, they lost their 1st position even before going to second round. Thus it is very important for all of us not to take our victories for granted but keep on improving on them and defend them to the best of our abilities. Spain is the world soccer champion this year, but will they defend their tittle well 4 years later, it really depend on how much they treasure their stronghold.
First is also a very important mildstone of our life. Do you remember the first time you have a gf or bf? For most of us, our 1st relationship will always be ended up broken in the sense that our relationship with our lst bf or gf won't last forever. I seldom see a person married off to his or her 1st partner. Thus the 1st relationship is an experience for us to know more about the opposite sex. Do you remember earning your 1st $1000? Yes, I felt very elated when I gotten my 1st pay when I was younger.
Thus, we can say that doing a certain thing for the 1st time is a stepping stone to greater achievement. When we were babies, we 1st learn to walk and after which we all learn to run... After sometime we learn to cycle, swim, rollerblade,etc. So here we can see that without doing something new for the 1st time, there will never be the 2nd, 3rd,4th,so on and so for.
I have many close friends who had 1st make up with girls when they were just secondary school students. All of them said that they couldn't resist the temptation and thus went ahead with it. However for me, I feel that sex should be after marriage and keep the best for your future wife. Therefore till now I still wanna stay committed to my stand. Yes, it is true that what is there for a guy to lose out when making out with a girl? Nothing actually as long as the girl doesn't have STD, blackmail you publicly or to your friends when you become famous or gotten your baby in her womb... However, if you respect or love the girl, you will not use her body to fulfill your sexual lust.... Thus as gentlemen, we should not cheapen a girl but protect her from any harm. :)
On the final note, always remember your first victory but dun just stay on there. Move on to the next level and perform it well.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010 ; 6:59 PM
